Where are my shoes?? (Quirky parenting)

It was the same every time we had to leave the house: Where are my shoes?

This was followed by THE SEARCH. Looking under the couch, under the bed, in the closets, under the covers, in the toys…you name it. Finally, we would leave. Late, of course.

This summer all that changed when we started a new practice! We were in a small studio apartment in Georgia for a few weeks, and I was tired of tripping over Doodlebug’s shoes. So I told her that her shoes needed to be put away, or else I would stick them in the freezer. Then I told hubby the same thing.

Well, we brought this rule home. You don’t have to take your shoes off in our home, but, if you do, the shoes must go in “the shoe place.” If they are not put away, and someone finds them, the person who finds them is free to place them in the freezer. This is completely egalitarian. Everyone’s shoes are fair game; anyone can put them in the freezer.

It sounds weird, but it works for us! Now if I see shoes out, I am not bothered in the least…of course, I rarely see shoes out of place anymore. Tongue out

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Thirteen fun “toys” for a crawling baby…

1. Take a large metal can (one of the kinds with a plastic lid) and fill it with the rings for Mason jars…big fun to roll around.

2. An ice cube.

3. A turkey baster — interactive as one person can make it “blow” on the baby.

4. Shoes with laces, velcro, and zippers.

5. Salad tongs that move.

6. Old catalogues — the more pages, the better! (Yes, should be supervised doing this…but still fun.)

7. Water bottles in a recycling bin.

8. Dishwashers that have been left open!

9. A box of macaroni — highly shakeable!

10. A stack of old ID cards/credit cards/library cards

11. Keys! Keys! Keys! Cell phones! Cell phones! Cell phones!

12. Clean Laundry…
13. Anything another child is using!

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Homeschooling Moment: Finding the Nile Delta on a Sidewalk

The other day, my daughter and I were walking down the street. We were a bit rushed (moving from Grocery Store A to Grocery Store B) and traffic was picking up. Things were noisy with the baby and the cars. Yet somehow, in the midst of all this, Doodlebug looked down at the cracks in the sidewalk and said, “Wow! Those look just like the Nile Delta!”

I looked down, too. She was right! It’s nice when we are able to pause and notice things like that.

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Plastic on my mind…

(Here I go, tackling the first of thirteen topics I need to blog about most!)

I’ve been thinking a lot about plastic lately. Usually my thoughts are proceeded by opening the “scary” cabinet in the kitchen and being buried by a deluge of mismatched plastic containers and lids. Let’s face it: nobody really cares about plastic. Let me explain…

Plastic is the essence of expendability. When plastic containers start to warp, toss ‘em. When they crack, just buy new ones. When the lids and containers don’t match, just cram them in the drawer or cabinet until the match “shows up.” I know that when my daughters break a plastic toy or lose a plastic something-or-other, I really don’t mind. One more thing I can get out of the house. Finally.

My glassware and ceramic tell a different story. They have special shelves, special homes where they are kept safe. They are washed carefully, by hand. I enjoy using them. My cast iron Dutch oven inspires me. Some items were gifts that spark memories every time I pull them out. They evoke caring just by nature of their fragility.

Yes, we can discuss the dangers of plastics leaching into our foods; we can lament the stockpiles of plastic bottles that are just growing and growing. These are important facts. But plastic effects our psyches, too. We don’t care about it. The mindset of plastic is that things are expendable. Glass, ceramic, wood, and the like, on the other hand, require special attention. They remind us that life is fragile, sensitive. Wood must be oiled. Glass and ceramic items need to be carefully cleaned and stored. We have to care.

I wonder sometimes if a better name for the current generation would be “Gen Plastic?” This makes me cringe. I truly want my daughters to grow up caring about and thinking about the world around them, not just cramming it all into the most convenient package and shoving the cabinet door closed.

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Thirteen Things I Need to Blog About…

Yes, thirteen things I need to blog about and will try to do in moments I can capture…

1. Thoughts on our “plastic economy” and my desire to de-plastic my life as much as possible.

2. Our homeschooling plans for 2007-2008.

3. Changing our National Anthem

4. Great games and secretly educational things my daughter enjoys doing in the car (and some reviews of a few products).

5. Birth story (perhaps I’ll save this for next December?)

6. Our ideal home — we are planning to move!

7.  Our Vermont vacation (happening in less than a week!)

8. Health Insurance

9. Puppet Dreams (new shows, puppet camp, and more)
10. Organizing!

11. Co-Housing
12. Living, schooling, and working outside “the box.”

13. How we travel and work with two kids!

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First entry since the birth of our second daughter last December…

Well, it’s about time. I have made many mental entries into this cyberland journal — I wish I could show them to you or even remember what they all were. Our daughter, known here as Wiggleworm, is asleep in her sling right now. It’s a bit hot for babywearing (in my mind), but she doesn’t seem to mind. She always sleeps best in her second womb.

She was born in early December of 2006 — the winter season that, in my memory, had not a single snowflake. I miss snow right now. Virginia is having a record-breaking heatwave. But I feel like it might as well be snowing. We are not leaving the house, we are holed up just as surely as we would if there were a blizzard right now.  Looking back to December, I can’t recall exactly how everything happened that month. How did meals happen? How did the laundry get done? I remember having lots of help. I remember nights we didn’t eat until 10PM. I remember remembering sleep.

The birth was amazing. Here in our home with a wonderful mid-wife. It was an amazing 9-to-5 labor, very unexpected after my first labor of 47 hours and 42 minutes! So now I am a twiced-blessed mother of two beautiful girls.  Perhaps someday I’ll make a detailed entry about the birth, but I feel I am laboring in the heat now…I don’t need to labor with that entry until a cooler date…perhaps in December?

I’ve been thinking about many, many things lately. I know I need to write them down and get them out before they just wither away without a large enough space to take root. My mind is a bit cluttered with family duties and day-to-day stuff to plant new ideas and nourish dreams beyond bedtime.

Our recent household purging plus discussions from our homeschooling Roots and Shoots group (mostly dealing with plastic) plus reading “Small Wonder” by Barbara Kingsolver has had me thinking about STUFF. Our stuff. The things we use every day as a family…and the things our country uses. I’ve been thinking about choices we make. What we do. How we work. We’ve been making some changes over the past few years that I’ve been very pleased with, but I know we can (and should) do so much more.

Coming up next: Thirteen Things I Need to Blog About… (and, hey, it’s even Thursday!)

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Thirteen Things I Have NOT Had to Whine About During My Pregnancy…

1. Hemmorhoids!

2. Sciatic pain

3. Reflux/Heartburn

4. Continuous naseau

5. Major constipation

6. Debilitating Fatigue

7. Severe edema

8. Irritable Uterus

9. Preterm Labor

10. UTI

11. Yeast Infections

12. Abnormal ultrasound

13. Unsupportive Husband!

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Learning Log: October 9th- November 9th

Wow. A whole month has passed! Amazing…

It’s been a pretty good month. I can’t really complain about too much (except for the pregnancy related stuff in the following post). My daughter has been better about doing her workboo-type stuff, and is actually asking how to write/spell things independently. This was a big stressor for me over the summer. I really had to hold back and not push. It’s hard when they are really bright in certain areas and you just feel like they are being obstinate in other areas. I’m learning to better “read” where my daughter is in terms of being ready to move forward or needing a break.

We’ve done lots of family reading. Read through “Trumpet of the Swan” and “Charlotte’s Web” (TWICE!). We’ve read a few other things. I think we’re going to do “The Hobbit” next. Her comprehension is really good, and I think we’re going to make a character journal for “The Hobbit.” We’ll take the characters and draw a picture of each one, then Doodlebug will narrate a description to accompany each picture. I remember “The Hobbit” as having a bazillion characters, and I don’t want her to be frustrated.

Reading and Math have continued on a fairly steady pace. Going through Miquon and Explode the Code — about five pages per week. That’s plenty. We’ve enjoyed a variety of math games (card games/board games). I’ll be ramping back up with some of the Language Arts games that I gave a rest for a while…I think she’s ready to try again!

Our adventure with SOTW has stalled out a bit. Mostly my fault. I just have been feeling like we don’t have the energy to “do it right.” So I skip it. But really, we could just read the stories and do questions. Do a map. Move on. It’s just doing all the “extra” reading and narration. My daughter has been having a tough time with the narration, because she thinks I want her to tell me THE ENTIRE story! Her narration from “Joseph and the Colorful Coat” just went on and on. I’ve tried showing her examples of a short synopsis, but she is so caught up in telling the whole story. I just need to jump back in and be OK with how it turns out. It’s a learning process, right?

Our two co-ops have been going well. Science and Art continue to be lots of fun and make for a great Thursday. Doodlebug loves the art teacher. The parent teachers have come up with some awesome projects/lessons. So far, they’ve studied weather, the properties of water, the water cycle, and are currently studying rocks/earth science (plate tectonics). Next week is earthquakes, then volcanoes! Our “Make and Bake” co-op has also been fun. The girls have made pizzas, made pretzels, felted wool, and done sun prints since my last entry. Next week, they’ll be making scones and having tea. (Last week they all wanted to speak in English accents the whole time, so this feels like a good plan.) They love it when they can wear their little aprons. We’re trying to line up a tour of a local bakery, too.

That’s it for homeschooling. We’ve also been getting ready for our new family member. Any time in the next month! I’ll be 37 weeks on Tuesday…wish me luck!

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Thirteen things to whine about during the last month of pregnancy…

1. The pregnant waddle-walk.

2. I have to pee!

3. Everyone has a comment to make. My favorite, so far, has been, “Gee, you’re going to be too big for you maternity clothes soon!”

4. Insomnia.

5. It’s hard to carry a basket of dirty clothes into the basement.

6. Lower back pain.

7. I have to pee again!

8. The temptation of Halloween Candy…

9. Constipation.

10. Getting up from the floor.

11. I am tired of everyone asking me, “How are you doing?”

12. The bedroom is upstairs; the bathroom is downstairs.

13. Did I mention, I have to pee?

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Learning Log: September 10th-October 8th

Well, blogging has definitely been a back-burner event for me lately. I really wanted to be consistent with the Learning Log entries, at the very least, but it has been tricky squeezing in the computer time.

I’ve learned a lot this past month. We’ve had some great weeks and a week where I am pretty sure absolutely nothing happened (well, nothing homeschool related: our cat died, I sprained a toe, etc…). But, I must admit, the weeks where things HAVE happened have been really great weeks. Doodlebug loves Story of the World and will listen to the Jim Weiss CDs independently (her own choice!). She loves the “games” we play — various math games, games from Phonics Pathways, writing in cornmeal poured on a cookie sheet…

What doesn’t she like? She doesn’t like worksheets anymore, which surprises me. Last Spring she would gleefully zip through workbooks faster than I could provide them. Now? I’m not quite sure why she’s changed.

Shaduf ProjectThe coolest thing that happened was about a week ago. We were reading in SOTW about nomads and looking at a picture of a shaduf (early irrigation tool) and after seeing a small-scale model in another book, Doodlebug expressd an interest in making one. Well, her father heard about this idea and volunteered to take over. He didn’t want to make a small-scale model, though. They actually went out and raided our neighbor’s brush pile, collected stuff from our house, and proceeded to build a large shaduf in our front yard! I was so proud of them both!

We also went on a field trip to Luray Caverns with our science homeschool co-op. The children in Doodlebug’s “class” are learning about water right now and will be moving onto geology/rocks soon. It’s a good transition for them to be learning about cave formation. That was pretty cool.

Her “Make and Bake” co-op has been fun. We’ve made ice cream, went on a field trip to a local ice cream shoppe where they make awesome ice cream for a tour, and we visited a beautiful local park to look for signs of autumn. (Tomorrow we will make pizza!!)

All in all, we’ve kept busy and there has definitely been learning and what the good ol’ state of Virginia would call “progress.” Some weeks I’ve just felt more on task than others. (I assume this is pretty much par for the course for most homeschooling families!) Hopefully, I can get into the habit of working on these logs more frequently. There is so much that we do which I would like to record!

Until next time…

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